It is important to teach children the essence of self-confidence at a young age. Their awareness about the need to be confident will help them develop socially and mentally. Confident people find it easier to boldly make the decisions that will make them successful in their adult life. As parents, helping the children to accept themselves regardless of what the society thinks is a good way to inspire confidence. Parents should also avoid bullying the child or make comparisons that can hurt the child’s self-esteem.

In these times, children who have access to the internet encounter many situations that can hinder their confidence such as cyberbullying, and other unwanted solicitations.

Cyberbullying occurs on the internet. It involves the strong use of abusive language and derogatory sentences to offend and confuse other people. Over the years, cyberbullying has become a great concern in our societies; the following statistics have been discovered regarding this issue:

  • 25% of teenagers who are active online admit that they have experienced some form of cyberbullying.
  • Female internet users tend to be more actively involved in cyberbullying.
  • Parents hardly know their children are being bullied online because only 1 in 10 teenagers will inform their parents about their encounter with cyber bullies.

Cyberbullying is targeted at teenagers who are still trying to discover and understand their personalities.

Regarding online predators, they are a significant threat to young children who use the internet. Their targets include boys and girls. Due to the virtual nature of the internet, these predators can assume the identity of an innocent person to lure their victims. The statistics regarding online predators is as follows:

  • There are over 500,000 online predators actively using the internet daily;
  • 87% of these attacks are orchestrated in private chat rooms and via instant messaging platforms;
  • 56% of the children who have encountered predators online confirm that they were asked to send their pictures.

Sexting can be described as the use of explicit videos, pictures, and messages in a public or private online chat. The statistics regarding sexting are as follows:

  • 15% of teenagers admit that they have sent nude pictures of themselves to people they have never physically met.
  • 57% admit that they were encouraged to post sexually explicit pictures online.
  • 12% of girls are bullied into participating in sexting.
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Considering these cyber threats and the presence of online predators, it is important that parents know what their children are doing online. Parents can guide and protect their children from the imminent dangers of the online sphere by using parental control app to monitor their children’s browsing behavior. These apps give parents the following access:

  • monitor apps that offer instant messaging (Facebook, WhatsApp, Snapchat);
  • view browsing history;
  • access to messages in the inbox and outbox including deleted messages;
  • monitor incoming & outgoing calls made from their children’s mobile devices;
  • monitor the frequently used apps to identify potential threats which can be blocked;
  • track location through GPS and geo-fencing;

You can protect your children from cyber bullying and predators online by monitoring their online activities. Children who encounter these issues online content with depression and social isolation which can destroy their confidence. Parents should strive to help their children become confident in their abilities and features while protecting them from cyberbullying and online predators.

Making children happy is a blessing, but it can be difficult to do this when you want to choose a gift. Gifts for 13 Year old boys are hard to find from the first, simply because they are no longer small children, but not yet passionate teenagers.

You are wondering what is the best choice, and how you can make sure that a boy’s special occasion will turn into an unforgettable memory? Then check out these gift options!

A drone. Now, for the last couple of years drones became incredibly popular, and many adults and children would love to play with one. There are different types that you can choose, from budget friendly ones that only have a few minutes of flying times, to expensive ones that can even take pictures or stream live videos. Make sure that you add to the gift a flying guide, instructions on how to use the drone and batteries if necessary.

A cool watch. And here I’m not talking about just any watch, I am talking about a smart one. One of the best gifts for 13 year old boys are smart watches, as they are not only very popular on the market, but also a great replacement for a phone. It is not as easy to lose as a smartphone, not as distracting when it comes to homework and study and definitely not as expensive. It is, however, a gadget that will be highly appreciated!

A skateboard. It is important for teenagers to be active and play sports as often as they can, but you don’t see many of them jogging around the neighborhood. Skateboarding is the next best thing, simply because it’s fun, easy, healthy and it will help them make friends and spend pleasant time outdoors. If the boy did not ride a skateboard before, you might also consider buying protective gear, just so he doesn’t get any injuries.

A board game. Young boys generally prefer to play with their friends, so a board game is a great source of fun in those days when they have to stay indoors. Make sure that you pick one that can have many players at the same time, and that does not have very complicated rules. Also, if you want to make things even more interesting, you can make by yourself a few cardboards with some fun challenges that need to be completed by the ones who lose the game.

A chemistry set. Of course, I don’t mean a real, dangerous one. There are chemistry sets appropriate for children that come with fun, but not dangerous substances and equipment. Even so, it should only be used under the strict supervision of an adult, and it should come with protective gear and instructions. Make sure you let the parents know what your gift is, so they can establish safe rules with their child.

A book. Yes, we know that not many young boys have the patience to read, but there are books that will get their attention from the first, and it will stay in their mind and soul forever.

In order to make the birthday boy interested in ready the book, write a card saying that this book remind you of him, and that he will find many interesting things related to him in the book. He will definitely be curious to read it, and intrigued to find out how others see him. Besides, his parents will definitely be happy that you convinced him to read an entire book!

Any of these choices are good, but it depends on the preferences, personality and style of the birthday boy. Make sure that you discuss with his parents before buying any of these gifts!